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Trust the warning
You do not need courtroom-level proof to leave a room, call somebody, make noise, or change your plan. The bad feeling is enough.
A serious survival campaign
Bite thedick off.
When a woman knows she is in danger, surviving may mean thinking ahead, appearing to cooperate, waiting for an opening—and fighting like hell to get free.
Shock gets attention. Survival is the point.
“Bite The Dick Off” is deliberately blunt because sexual assault is real, terrifying, and too often discussed in whispers. This is not about revenge. It is about giving women permission to trust danger, use surprise, resist when they can, and escape.
An attacker may expect fear, silence, or compliance. Appearing to cooperate can be a survival decision. If that creates an opening, sudden resistance—including biting—may create the second needed to get away.
No response makes an assault the survivor’s fault. Fighting, freezing, fleeing, or complying to stay alive are all survival responses.
A note to men
Good men have nothing to fear from this message.
If you respect women, understand consent, and keep your hands to yourself, this campaign is not about you. You do not have to worry about this shit.
The men who should be scared are the ones thinking about doing something fucked up to a woman. We want consequences on their minds before they ever make a move.
I do not know how many attackers will have to learn the hard way. I hope the answer is none. If this message makes even one person stop, think, and leave a woman alone, that is a better future for everybody.
The survival mindset
End the problem now and for the future.
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Choose what keeps you alive
If direct resistance is not safe yet, acting calm or compliant can be strategy—not consent. The survivor decides what the moment requires.
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Create distance and go
When an opening appears, make noise, resist, get away, move toward people or safety, and call for help. Escape is the win.
This campaign offers general awareness, not a guarantee that any tactic will work. Every assault is different. No survivor is responsible for an attacker’s actions or for how her body responds under threat.
For parents
Raise daughters who fight back.
Strength starts before an emergency. Teach girls that their discomfort matters, “no” is a complete answer, and politeness never outranks personal safety.
Believe her when she says someone or something feels wrong.
Practice leaving, calling, yelling, and getting to a trusted adult.
Use age-appropriate language without shame or scare tactics.
Make sure she knows survival is never something to apologize for.
The first drop
Five clean shirts. Zero subtlety.
The original three are back prints now, with a small centered BiteTheDickOff.com mark on the front. The two dark-humor shirts stay back-only. Online ordering is open now.
The core three
Clean statement shirts with the message large on the back and the website small on the front.
Tiny website mark on front
Front center
Bite The Dick Off — Original
The statement that started the whole damn thing, moved to a large clean back print.
Front center$34.99
- Large message on back
- Small centered BiteTheDickOff.com on front
- Black unisex tee
- Sizes XS–5XL
- Printed on demand
Tiny website mark on frontFront center
End The Problem — Mission Shirt
A clean black-and-red mission statement across the back of a bone-colored shirt.
Front center$34.99
- Large message on back
- Small centered BiteTheDickOff.com on front
- Natural unisex tee
- Sizes S–3XL currently available
- Printed on demand
Tiny website mark on frontFront center
Raise Daughters Who Fight Back
The parent shirt: clean, blunt, and built for families raising girls who trust themselves.
Front center$34.99
- Large message on back
- Small centered BiteTheDickOff.com on front
- Black unisex tee
- Sizes XS–5XL
- Printed on demand
The dark-humor two
Large clean artwork on the back. Blank front. No gore and no clutter.
Front is blank
No Chance of Reattachment — Sorry
Dark humor. Clean design. Zero ambiguity. Bold cream-and-red artwork with no graphic anatomy.
$29.99
- Large back print; blank front
- Black Gildan Softstyle® tee
- Unisex sizes XS–5XL
- 100% ring-spun cotton
- Printed on demand
Front is blank
Dickless Losers Club — Membership Earned
Clean cream-and-red badge. No explicit anatomy. No gore. Just a club nobody wants to join.
$29.99
- Large back print; blank front
- Black Gildan Softstyle® tee
- Unisex sizes XS–5XL
- 100% ring-spun cotton
- Printed on demand
Launch pricing: $34.99 for the core front-and-back shirts and $29.99 for the back-only shirts. Online ordering is open now; shipping is calculated at checkout. Questions? Use the Message Bobby link.
In development
The breakaway bite trainer.
A non-realistic, phallic-shaped training concept intended to help adult women and supervised trainees understand commitment and pressure without pretending a classroom exercise can reproduce a real assault.
The final design must be engineered around dental safety, controlled breakaway behavior, cleanable materials, and replaceable components. It will not be offered for sale until qualified professionals test it.
Founded byBobby MareFather of two daughters
Why this exists
“I’m a father. I’m proud. And I refuse to stay quiet.”
I started Bite The Dick Off because I have two young daughters and I do not like what is happening to girls and women. I want them—and every woman—to know that their lives matter more than an attacker’s comfort, expectations, or body.
The name is shocking because the reality is worse. The purpose is serious: start conversations, strengthen instincts, fund education, and remind women that getting home alive is the only rule that matters.
Free, confidential support
You do not have to handle this alone.
If you are in immediate danger, call 911. RAINN’s National Sexual Assault Hotline offers free, confidential, 24/7 support. This website provides general awareness—not legal, medical, or professional self-defense advice.